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Selecting a Hill Upon Which to Fight

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  • Started 1 year ago by Protect the Rock
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Protect the Rock - Moderator

Pulling on the collective mental powers and moral support of the mighty CE forum —

My fourth eldest daughter, a sweet ten-year-old, is quite excited about being in Honors Choir at the local middle school.  Today, they were given a piece to begin learning for some upcoming event, apparently for around Halloween.  The song is called, "Double Trouble" from Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban.

My daughter correctly told the teacher she is not allowed to read Harry Potter and her parents don't want her "getting into Harry Potter stuff."

The choir director told her words to the effect that he used to be a minister for fifteen years and there's nothing wrong with Harry Potter. Just have your parents read the lyrics and if they think there's anything wrong, call him.

Here are the lyrics:

Double, double, toil and trouble
Fire burn and cauldron bubble
Double, double, toil and trouble
Something wicked this way comes.

Eye of newt and toe of frog,
Wool of bat and tongue of dog,
Adder's fork and blind-worm's sting,
Lizard's leg and howlet's wing.

Double, double, toil and trouble
Fire burn and cauldron bubble
Double, double, toil and trouble
Something wicked this way comes.

In the cauldron boil and bake,
Fillet of a fenny snake,
Scale of dragon, tooth of wolf,
Witches' mummy, maw and gulf.

Double, double, toil and trouble
Fire burn and cauldron bubble

Double, double, toil and trouble
Fire burn and cauldron bubble
 

Double, double, toil and trouble
Fire burn and cauldron bubble

Something wicked this way comes.

My daughter is old enough and bright enough to know what is real and what is not.  We have also told her some of this is from William Shakespeare's MacBeth.

And I know many good Catholics who see no harm in Harry Potter.  Our family has avoided him for various reasons I have posted on before.

And it will still require her to endlessly chant and/or sing these repulsive words (I haven't heard the melody that goes with them)

But it just steams me that:

1) they have to pick a song with such crappy lyrics (sorry, bard)

2) the implied message is, "your parents are goobers, have them call me and I will enlighten them up for you."

What say you?  Pray and fight, or just pray? 

Either way, it's a teachable moment for my daughter.  We're aware that she is getting to that age where she would rather not be the tallest poppy in the field.  But I'm up for a scrap.

Posted 1 year ago #
pouliot - Member
Re:
"Pray and fight, or just pray?"
The lyrics are banal, yes.  Worth a hassle?  I think no.  Especially not given that your daughter will bear the brunt of any repercussions. 

What to do? 

Give it a year, & keep your eye on this minister.  Think over how you would make your point in the meantime, so as to convince him of the dangers in this sort of balderdash, & then, if te opportunity presents itself, deliver your explanation.

Meantime

By all means pray.

Other options:

Home-school.

Get a book about angels and heaven for your daughter.

As Catholics we believe in the supernatural & most often tend to emphasize the good in the supernatural.  When the world latches on to the supernatural without any reference to God, as we understand Him, our hackles rise since it is obviously a situation that could be exploited by the evil one.  In fact, it could be a situation fostered by that fallen angel.

A natural reaction I think for us.  But, sometimes we overreact.  For myself I do not believe the Potter phenomenon is a good one and not having any children at the focus of the storm, I argue against it openly.  Now that I'm older I can't say if I would not have argued when my own kids were in elementary school (fortunately it was Catholic).

(It was only with a self-styled Catholic high school that we ever had significant issues.

As we home-schooled after that, we didn't have any problems, plus the kids were older and had the beginnings of their own defenses by then.

Regards,
Old Sigma (Cradle Catholic [Latin rite] & generally inveterate amateur)
Posted 1 year ago #
lpioch - Moderator

Actually, this is ALL from Shakespeare, except the line "Something wicked this way comes."

So just know, if you pick to battle this one, you're really battling Shakespeare and not Harry Potter.  Not sure that's going to make much of an effect.

The music is "medieval-sounding choral piece" written by John Williams.(wikipedia)

My take would be to do the following (in no particular order):

*  Speak to the teacher regarding his "seemingly blatant" disrespect for the parent's explicit wishes for the child, no matter how "misguided" he may have felt them to be.  But I wouldn't necessarily insist she be removed or anything like that.

*  You're right...many teaching moments for your daughter.  Starting with a discussion on why people are drawn to darkness sometimes.

*  You might brush up on Macbeth to remember the context of the witches sceen (I know it's in the very beginning) and discuss it with her if it makes sense to.

*  Counter the darkness with light.  Have the entire family learn a new hymn to or about a saint (or to the litany of saints) since Nov. 1st follows directly.  This is often a recommended "counter" to anything that may be "required" of a person (like someone that has to read Mein Kampf for a particular course should also read a Catholic related perspective to "remedy" any error that may creep in and confuse).

*  I applaude your protection of your daughter.  But for her sake, make the lesson positive instead of negative (negative being any ramifications and fallout she may have to endure if you do fight it to the end).

Posted 1 year ago #
royal osiodhachain - Inactive
Dear Ipioch, I would say take your daughter out of the play and write a letter of protest specifically underlining the objectionable parts to not only the teacher, copy also the superintendant and the school board, telling them that you find the material offensive and degrading to parents and children and that you expect more respect and educational quality out of the public educational system. I was a public educator for 15 years in Minnesota. The school board can override any objectionable curriculum should they agree with your feelings. You can schedule a meeting with the school board or go to one of the regularly scheduled school board meetings to present your case both in writing copied to each board member and orally. In the Holy Love of God I am your brother in Christ and my name is Royal
Posted 1 year ago #
fishman - Member

 "Something wicked this way comes." is a quote also from shakespeare near or around the same scene as mekbeth enters one of the witches remarks "by the pricking of my thumb somehting wicked this way comes".

 

Do you think your 10 year old is old enough to watch macbeth?

If you do I wouldn't worry about it.  I think you teachers undermining of parental authority should be addressed.  The approate thing to say would have been. ' let me talk to them and see if they still have an objection' and nothing more. 

 

That particular issue should be addressed with the teacher at minimum.

So many good reasons to homeschool , but given this is an honors choir

she could easily be enrolled in something similar even if homeschooled.

 

Posted 1 year ago #
on a journey - Inactive

Great info and advice above--

 I'd say half your battle is won already in that you have a ten year old that knows her limits, has the courage and strength to approach a teacher regarding her limits and beliefs, and she comes to you with questions. 

 I'll pray for you and yours--

 

Jesus, I Trust in You!

Posted 1 year ago #
noelfitz - Member

Protect the Rock

You have a wonderful daughter.  You are blessed.  She has a wonderful family. She is blessed.

I would not make a big issue of the problem.  Your daughter will have to defend her values often in life.  If you can discuss the issue at home and keep good relationships with her and the people she comes in contact with everthing will work out well.

God bless,


NoelFitz.
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In necessariis, unitas; in dubiis, libertas; in omnibus, caritas.
“Here I stand. I cannot do otherwise. God help me"

Posted 1 year ago #
Protect the Rock - Moderator

Thank you all.  We deeply appreciate and value the input from this group of friends.

Suzy and I are still in prayer in talking it over.

Yes, our daughter is a very special soul.

I'l keep you posted.

PTR!

Posted 1 year ago #

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