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homosexual priests and bishops and those who cover-up for them.

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noelfitz - Member
Recently I read in this roundtable about:

homosexual priests and bishops and those who cover-up for them.

 

These words saddened me.  Priests are trying in very difficult times to serve the people of God.  To be accused by friends or enemies of being a homosexual must be very difficult.

 

Would it be a good idea if we supported priests and showed them we love and respect them and sympathize with them, and realize how hurtful it must be to be considered a homosexual or a paedophile, when they are trying to serve God and their fellow men?

 

Would it be a good idea if we united together to help evangelise and try to win back to the Church those of our friends, relatives and colleagues who have left, in co-operation with our clergy?

 

Recently I  was at a very informative talk by Prof Michael Hout (University of California at Berkeley).  He pointed out that Catholicism in the US is not exceptional, Protestantism is.  In the States the rate of Church attendance is higher among Protestants that among Catholics.  In the US those in Catholic families grew from 15% before WW I to 30% in the 1960s, and has been stable since.  Practising adult Catholics are about 24% of the total adult population now.

 

The Catholic population has grown through the immigration of Hispanics and through larger Catholic families.  However there is a huge loss of Catholics from the Church in recent years.

 

How can the Church reach out to those who have left?

 

I would imagine that if Catholics supported  their  priests and bishops and were united in love and faith, those who have left our Catholic family would feel attracted back to a warm welcome.

 

Thus attacks on priests, such as the recent one on Fr Beck CP, seem to me unchristian and counter-productive.

 

 His book God Underneath has been praised: 

Told in little vignettes or stories about life serving the people around him (as well as memories of childhood) author Edward Beck offers a revealing, honest glimpse into the challenges and rewards of priesthood. 

Thus I would suggest we support   our priests, by friendship and understanding in these very difficult times for them. 

Perhaps we should   show them that they are appreciated and respected and they have our love and support.   

 

God bless,

NoelFitz.
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Posted 1 year ago #
yanastrovich - Inactive

noel, I truly believe the only way to increase Catholicism in the USA is for the hispanics to immigrate here then become the majority. Protestant religious practices have been developing in the US since the first immigrants came from Europe and so there is hardly any way to turn it around. It is very similar to the rise of communism in Soviet Union and China, once it got a foothold it just grew. Eventually it will implode of course because protestant belief has no substance. The Mexicans are the only answer for America, and they are coming in droves, so it wont be long before they dominate American culture. Maybe 10 more years from now. 

In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit

Posted 1 year ago #
noelfitz - Member

Y

You may have somewhat missed my point. 

Types of Protestantism in the US have been in sharp decline.  President  Ge Gaulle said France had three religions and hundreds of different types of Cheese, while the US had three types of Cheese and hundreds of different type of Roligion. In fact in the US there are 235 different Protestant denominations, but they are of four types: conservative, moderate, liberal and Afro-American.

The moderates seem to be in decline. 

However while there is great diversity in affiliation, there seems to be a growing consensus in practice and  belief among all Americans.  Most folk go to a Church which has its own organ or piano and has singing.  Most also belief in Jesus and that one should do good.

One unique thing Catholics have is an inability to keep children in the Church.  Even though it is considered a mortal sin Catholics fail to attend Church on Sundays more than Protestants.  The Church’s teaching on sex is also a cause of many young folk leaving. Within the Catholic Church now there is a huge diversity of opinion and belief.  All our positions seem to be different from each other, which can be seen in the sharp disagreement here in CE with our clergy among some subscribers.  Many Catholics now seems to be an individual Church, which reject the official Catholic clergy.

I am advocating that we rally around our clergy and reach out to those who have fallen away and welcome them back into the warm friendly supportive household of the faith, where clergy and people are united in love and service.

God bless,

bless,


NoelFitz.
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Posted 1 year ago #
Protect the Rock - Moderator

noelfitz,

"How can the Church reach out to those who have left?"

You answer your own question later when you correctly noted that the moderates seem to be in decline.

What the Church must do is to emphatically remain resolute in the face of the rapidly changing fashionable thinking of the times and continue to have the courage to be Catholic.  People will come back home to the Church when she becomes who she is; and they will know she stands as the bride of Jesus Christ -- now and forever.

And I think you are right as well when you say we need to support priests and showed them we love and respect them and sympathize with them, and realize how it must hurt deeply to be typecast as a homosexual child molester and protector of the same.

Let's start today!

Posted 1 year ago #
yanastrovich - Inactive

noel, I agree with your sentiment entirely and would also include rallying around all other faithful Catholics and even some unfaithful Catholics. I have spent much time at the seminary where I live and recently exchanged an intention to pray with a seminarian for his successful ordination. I am not in favor of blaming priests nor interfering in their ministry of the sacraments. The local ordinances of law however do interfere, my parish priest told me a seminarian friend of his was arrested and sent to jail for fondling a parishoner while on a hiking trip. It is sad when ordinary people sin, yet it is even sadder when a priest sins. We all would like to forget the aftermath of scandal that is still reverberating in the US and we will in time as long as the local law enforcement does not catch another priest in some abuse of a minor. I pray in Jesus Holy Name for strength for the priests to avoid that sin.

 In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit

Posted 1 year ago #
noelfitz - Member

Y & P the R

Thank you for your very constructive and encouraging replies.

I do not know the answers to the questions I raise.The Pope and the Holy Spirit have not asked me to sort out the Catholic Church.  But we have been asked to pray.

One veers between optimism and pessimism.

Today in our local convent a young nun renewed her vows and the Mass was said by a young priest two months ordained.  It was a very warm and friendly event, and shows hope for the future.

Does the Church want to be for over a billion of us, or does it want to focus on a small handful of faithful?

A Frenchman was asked was he a Catholic.  He said “Yes”.  “Do you go to Mass?”  “No, I said I was a Catholic, not a fanatic.”

In Ireland about 90% of the population are Catholics, yet Mass attendance in some parishes is about 1%.  Catholic moral teaching is rejected.  Are all these non-practicing Catholics bound for hell?  That is my fundamental question.  The answer is that we all must rely on God’s mercy.

We are in a holy Church made up of unholy people.  But we have been saved by Jesus – true God and true man.  Yet…..

The modern view is that God loves us all with an unconditional love and we will all go to heaven.  Who knows?

I think we should continue to reach out to our lapsed friend and show them we love them and they would be welcome if they came back to the Church.

Also we should support our clergy who are working in very difficult times with enemies within and without the Church.

I would love to hear more opinions. 

God bless,


NoelFitz.
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Posted 1 year ago #
catholic crusader 262 - Inactive

The Catholic Crusader

Hello,

I spent many years in the seminary. I saw and was sadly involved in many things that NEVER should happen to any person. Now as a parent and Father of a child the catholic church has rewarded me with LARGE tuition Fees, tracking of your mass attendance, and keeping my son after CCD as ransom to pay a FEE!The main problem with Priests is the fact that many many semanaries dontscreen well for potential predators or homosexuals. There are NO fool proof tests, but better screening helps... Been there, seen it and left disgusted....

Posted 1 year ago #
Tom More - Inactive

The following is an article found on www.bishop-accountability.org. It is sad but pertinent to this conversation.


TALY
Il Corriere della Sera

Journalist Lorenzo Salvia reports on interviews with homosexual priests that will be shown on the private television station called La7. Anonymous priests said there were many homosexual men in seminaries. The film shows some do not take chastity seriously.

One priest said he "frequented a Sicilian boy for one year." "If you wear the tunic (meaning clerical clothing) it doesn't mean two men can't love each other," was another comment. Another commented "Sure if you wear the priest's collar you can attract many people and you can ask them if they would like to make love with you."

Some criticized the church. "It behaves like the America army -- don't ask, don't tell. It covers up. It hides everything under the sand but doing so it doesn't grow," said one priest.

The "gay" priests were filmed with a hidden camera during clandestine encounters with a boy they had picked up on a chat line for homosexual men.

The half-hour film will be shown next Monday during the Exit program on La7. The intent of producing the program was to lift the veil of secrecy and tell the truth about homosexuality in the priesthood. The faces of the three priests are not shown and their voices are disguised.

The first priest said he had his first homosexual experience 10 years ago. The second priest admits to having hundred encounters but added he did not participate in seminary. He added that the church is hypocritical about gay priests because there are many homosexual men in the Vatican. A third priest said he had a tendency toward sado-masochism.

Posted 1 year ago #
catholic crusader 262 - Inactive

The Catholic Crusader

Homosexuality per say is NOT the issue. It is how the church deals or does not deal with it. Homosexual priests are not all predatory to abused with kids. Many priests feel by being or engaging in that type...that they dont break their vows, because the church defines it as being with a woman.. therefore they try to skirt the issue....

 

Your Crusader

Posted 1 year ago #
Ignatian77 - Inactive
I recall what John Paul II once said -- "We have to make the world more human." Personally, I think Christianity's condemnation of homosexuality should end. It's inhuman.
Posted 1 year ago #
yanastrovich - Inactive
noel, The visionaries of the Blessed Mother said that she advised, "Many souls are damned because they have no one to pray for them". another thing she said is, "More souls are damned for sins of the flesh than any other sin".In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit
Posted 1 year ago #
noelfitz - Member

Tom

You wrote:

He added that the church is hypocritical about gay priests because there are many homosexual men in the Vatican. A third priest said he had a tendency toward sado-masochism. 

If this is your opinion I am sorry. 

There are many sinners everywhere, I am one.  We all have a tendency to sin, it stems from original sin.

Yana

thank you for your comment. 

Who were the The visionaries of the Blessed Mother? 

Catholic Crusader

I am delighted to heart from you.  You are very welcome here.  I like to hear new voices, and to realize many folk are involved in our discussions.  

I am sorry to hear of the very negative experiences you had.  My limited experience (fortunately) has not been as hurtful.

I do not understand your reference to tuition fees.

I see that you are hanging in there and have not given up on the Church. 

I do hope you and your family will stay with the Church and find there happiness, blessing and support.

In these discussions there seems to be two opinions about the clergy.1 They are trustworthy and we should obey them. 2. They are dangerous unholy me who harm the Church (eg Fr Beck).    

 

God bless,


NoelFitz.
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Posted 1 year ago #
yanastrovich - Inactive

noel, Please visit the Catholic website: http://www.fatima.org/essentials/facts/seers.asp to read the biographies of Francisco and Jacincta Marto and Lucy Dos Santos all from Portugal. Lucy became a num. The site has info regarding their visions of the Blessed Mother [approved by the Vatican]. My mother saw the miracle of the sun or the [Day the Sun Danced] as talked about by the visionaries. The sun miraculously danced in the early 1900's when my mother was only a young child.

In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, Amen

Posted 1 year ago #
noelfitz - Member

Yana

many thanks for your immediate reply to me.

I was not sure whether you were referring to Fatima or Medjugorje.

I believe Sr Lucy died in 2005, aged 97.

God bless,


NoelFitz.
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Posted 1 year ago #
yanastrovich - Inactive

noel, Yes, you know the visitations of the Blessed Mother very well. I met the visionaries from Medjugorje. I am not certain if Medjugorje is approved by the Vatican as of yet. The Fatima and Garabandol visionaries all say the Blessed Mother encourages us to pray as she says this is the only means to help those whom are lost and forgotten.

In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit

Posted 1 year ago #
noelfitz - Member

Y

I think that Medjugorje is not approved by the Vatican.

God bless,


NoelFitz.
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Posted 1 year ago #
yanastrovich - Inactive

noel, For good reason the Vatican waits for evidence. I was invited to a vision of the Blessed Mother in northern Minnesota supposedly. Of course the Blessed Mother did not appear and the man who claimed she would be there was in Medjugorje at the same moment he was suppose to be entertaining the Blessed Mother in Minnesota. We all got took on that deal, about 3000 persons from the Catholic church.

In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit

Posted 1 year ago #
Tom More - Inactive
Hi Noel,


I don't know if there are many homosexual men in the vatican, but it wouldn't surprise me if there are some. 


The sex-abuse scandal was (is) widespread; according to the John Jay report, effecting almost every diocese in the US. The widespread nature of the problem would lead me to believe that there was knowledge in high places, if not some sort of organization.


That being said let me add, that I believe there are at least two groups of people who have an interest in keeping this scandal at the forefront. 


One, being the group who dissent from Church teaching and would like to see the hierarchy dismantled and the Church's doctrine, especially on matters of human sexuality, completely reversed.


The other, being those loyal to the Church who see this scandal as the fruit of dissent, and believe that pretending it doesn't exist will cause great damage to the Church.


I consider myself part of the latter group.


If you don't address the root cause of the problem, it is not going to go away. I don't believe the root cause of the problem is being addressed by the bishops, at least those in the US.

Posted 1 year ago #
yanastrovich - Inactive
tom, According to Catholic doctrine it is not considered abusive to be plagued with thoughts that are contrary to God's design. In other words it is not a sin to have a thought about having sex with someone we are not suppose to. It is a sin to entertain the thought for any length of time and then to act on it. Homosexual thoughts apply to the same criteria. Should a man, woman or priest have a homosexual thought, it does not become abusive until the thought is entertained willingly then acted upon to produce a homosexual act with another person. 

If you are going witch-hunting for anyone who has a homosexual thought, then you are discriminating against all others who have some other form of sinful thought.

Before you make accusations, you need to prove that these priests are willingly entertaining homosexual thought and moreso acting in a homosexual manner with others in collusion. That is your responsibility in your accusatory stance. The burden of proof is upon you, not the priests nor the Bishops.

For you to perseverate without evidence is false witness which is a violation of commandment, "Thou shall not bear false witness against your neighbor", which requires confession. Thank you for listening, brother. In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit
Posted 1 year ago #
yanastrovich - Inactive
noel, I have read some bits about the President of Ireland. I am very honored that you have some contact with her. If possible would you be able to get a photo of her and you in study at the seminary? I would be delighted, of course, if you would not mind posting the photo. I had my photo done with Bishop Harry Flynn last week and also received two letters from Pope John Paul 11 which I framed.       In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit
Posted 1 year ago #
noelfitz - Member

Yana

Thank you for your reply.

The President is not in my class in Milltown.  She is studying Canon Law, in spite of the fact that she is a lawyer and was Reid Professor of Law in Trinity College Dublin. 

However she is in the class with a nun from our local convent, who was professed last week-end.  I think I mentioned this in a previous post.

Times have changed.  I was in Milltown having a cup of coffee after a lecture some days ago, and this nun came and joined me and offered me some chocolate.

She is a wondeful young person.  People like her give hope for the future of the Church.

God bless,


NoelFitz.


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Posted 1 year ago #
Tom More - Inactive
yanastrovich,



Thanks for your reply.  


"According to Catholic doctrine it is not considered abusive to be plagued with thoughts that are contrary to God's design."


I agree with your statement.  You are absolutely right.


I am not criticizing anyone's thoughts, just their actions. The sex-abuse scandal involved the actions of homosexual priests and bishops.  


I am equally concerned about active homosexuals that enter the priesthood with no intention of remaining chaste, as I am about active heterosexuals who enter, with no intent of remaing chaste.











Posted 1 year ago #
David T Garrison - Inactive

Noel, you wrote:

"She is a wondeful young person.  People like her give hope for the future of the Church."

Here, in New York, we have some such as her that we call " Sisters for Life"

Remember, the Sun is always shining!

Posted 1 year ago #
yanastrovich - Inactive

tom, What I am driving at is that I am asking you to name some names instead of writing the words, "active homosexuals" and "actions of homosexual bishops and priests". The reference to these persons implies guilt and does not prove it or even offer a shred of evidence. In order for you to make these statements, you need evidence or witnesses to the events. Where, when and how did you see a priest having sex with another priest or man or boy. And which Bishop did you say covered something up. What is his name?

 In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit

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yanastrovich - Inactive

Noel, Canon law has no similarity to civil law. The church has an established guideline for normative behavior expected from the faithful and the clergy. The Canon outlines those expected behaviors. For an attorney of civil law to study Canon gives her an insight into normative Catholic behaviors. This is a very smart move for a President of an entire country, considering that the vast majority of Irish call themselves Catholic. I wish Geo Bush would study the Canon and Islam as well before he goes sending invaders to force democracy upon a race of people who will never accept democracy because they are Islamists. But then, our President is not as intelligent as yours.

I am very happy for you that you are in study, which is a lifelong process. "To know Scripture is to know Christ" I believe this quote came from Saint Jerome or Augsustine.

In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit

Posted 1 year ago #
David T Garrison - Inactive

Ignorance of the Scriptures is ignorance of Christ. St. Jerome

Remember, the Sun is always shining!

Posted 1 year ago #
Tom More - Inactive
yanastrovich,


"What I am driving at is that I am asking you to name some names..."


I am referring to are those identified in the John Jay report as well as those identified daily on: 




You wrote in your comment to Noel:  "But then, our President is not as intelligent as yours.'


I just want you to know I agree with you totally on this one!
Posted 1 year ago #
yanastrovich - Inactive
tom, Thank you for your evidence[I read the John Jay report and it is posted on my Diocese website www.archspm.org]and your agreement regarding Pres Bush. Not much longer and we both will not suffer at his hands and his poor judgement. I pray in Jesus Holy Name our next pres is smart or better yet, wise like the wisemen who visited Christ in Bethlehem. In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit
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yanastrovich - Inactive
noel, I would like to post info about the President of Ireland in case anyone is interested in her background: 

Mary McAleese

On 11th November, 1997, Mary McAleese was inaugurated as the eighth President of Ireland. Mary McAleese was re-elected on Friday 1st October 2004 being the only validly-nominated candidate. She is a barrister and former Professor of Law. Born on June 27th 1951 in Belfast, she is the first President to come from Northern Ireland. She is married, since 1976, to Dr. Martin McAleese, an accountant and dentist. They have three children, Emma, born 1982 and twins Justin and SaraMai, born 1985.

The eldest of nine children, President McAleese grew up in Northern Ireland through the violent times that have come to be known as 'The Troubles'. Her family was one of many adversely affected by the conflict. She graduated in Law from the Queen's University of Belfast in 1973 and was called to the Northern Ireland Bar in 1974. In 1975, she was appointed Reid Professor of Criminal Law, Criminology and Penology at Trinity College Dublin and in 1987, she returned to her Alma Mater, Queen's, to become Director of the Institute of Professional Legal Studies. In 1994, she became the first female Pro-Vice Chancellor of the Queen's University of Belfast.

President McAleese is an experienced broadcaster, having worked as a current affairs journalist and presenter in radio and television with Radio Telefís Éireann. She has a longstanding interest in many issues concerned with justice, equality, social inclusion, anti-sectarianism and reconciliation. The theme of her Presidency is 'Building Bridges'

Among the other appointments she has held are;

  • Director of Channel 4 Television.
  • Director, Northern Ireland Electricity
  • Delegate to the 1995 White House Conference on Trade and Investment in Ireland and to the follow up Pittsburg Conference in 1996.
  • Member of the Catholic Church delegation in 1996 to the North Commission on Contentious Parades.
  • Member of the Catholic Church Episcopal Delegation to the New Ireland Forum in 1984.
  • Founder member of the Irish Commission for Prisoners Overseas.

In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, Amen

Posted 1 year ago #
Alyosha9570 - Inactive

TrentForever,

      As a new member of the Exchange forum, I am astonished at what must be deep spiritual blindness and denial about this subject of sexual

abuse of children.  I realize that it is a tremendously ugly and evil scene

that comes before us in this topic, but pretending it did not happen or wishing it would just go away is in no sense a proper Catholic response to this urgent symptom of what has gone wrong in the Catholic Church.

      Just recently, 550 million dollars in Los Angeles... and the documenyts are sealed as part of the deal, so we"ll never fully know the depth and breadth of the scandal.  And it's not over yet... but the more serious aspect of it is the cover-up.  Catholic teaching (i.e. Catechisnm

Paragraph 1868 teaches and has always taught that those, even Bishops, who participate or cooperate in the sins of other are also guilty of the same level of sin.  Happily, I don't see anyone here saying that it is not MORTALLY SINFUL, to sexually abuse a child.  The great tragedy is that these priests and the bishops who failed to properly, lovingly, and fraternally correct them and prevent their continued predations have both lost the great gift of sanctifying grace, lost the supernatural

virtue of Charity, seriously damaged their own supernatural virtues of

Faith and Hope (these is what the Catholic Church teaches are the result of mortal sin!) and damned themselves.  The bishops involved failed miserably in their absolute duty - not only to the children, but to these priests who were suffering from captivity to mortally sinful behavior which these bishops did nothing to intervene against.  They were playing a diabolic tune without even appreciating that fact.  Millstone time, friends... millstone time...  That is deadly serious stuff and for Catholics, clergy or not, hierarchial clergy or not, laity, mother or father or whatever to pretend that by ignoring this great and sinful

blemish on the Catholic Church is spiritual blindness of the greatest degree!

     But it follows:  when Pope Paul VI wrote Humanae Vitae in 1962, ten years before Roe vs. Wade, he warned of the consequences of sexual

sin.  He was met by a broadside of criticism, led by certain Jesuits, who

were championing loosening sexual restrictions which existed since time immemorial.  These dissident priests, and even some bishops, let down the guarding walls of sexual morality the Church had set up in accord with the teachings of Jesus Christ, and look what flooded into the worldwide Church, including that former bastipn of orthodoxy, from where my ancestors all came, Eire, where the laity once save the Church during 700 years of persecution, because priests could not operate openly, because they were under sentence of death if found.

     Wake up, friends, please don't whitewash this sinfulness.  To set the Church back on the right path, acknowledgement, confession, repentance, forgiveness is the only way we will get beyond this

tragedy of man's weak and sinful nature once more exposed to view.

Your name: Alyosha9570
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