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Jakes - Moderator

BIG (not small) 1.

In a sequence of posts I will address (probably awkwardly and) in a constrained way (i.e., keeping to narrow topics and not friendly toward flights of digression by commenting posters) what seem to be happenings which persons of good will ought to be able to identify and be instructed by, toward the simple, common-sense art of living aright and well.

While what I present will fall far short of the communicative products of Mary Kochan, still, I’d like to start by borrowing the following observation by Malcolm Muggeridge quoted in Mary’s 11/13/06 article in the Today segment of Catholic Exchange: "The Conversion of St. Muggs". He said: "Every happening, great and small, is a parable whereby God speaks to us and the art of life is to get the message."

Way back, mankind was told specifically to keep away from the tree in the middle of the garden but Adam and Eve, unable or unwilling (as, so often, are we) to control their prideful wish to garner greater recognition for themselves, bought the serpent’s lie, ate that forbidden fruit and had the bottom drop out of the raft of glorious gifts they had formerly enjoyed. They came, saw, foolishly transgressed and brought regrettable miseries upon themselves and their progeny.

Any lesson for today? How about "Don’t ignore God’s commandments: Doing so will just come back to bite you sooner or later - and hard!"

Now, you’ve got to admit, that’s not up to Mary K’s standards, but it’s not bad advice.

As this series goes on, happenings critically ignoring God’s commands will be addressed.

Peace,

JR

Posted 1 year ago #
Jakes - Moderator

BIG (not small) 1.a.

Malcolm Muggeridge’s observation: "Every happening, great and small, is a parable whereby God speaks to us and the art of life is to get the message."

I suppose that our first parents kicked themselves for the losses they imposed on themselves in ignoring God’s clearly-enunciated command, just so that they could "play God" themselves. You know, that happened so long ago and the whole debacle has been written and talked about for centuries; so wouldn’t you think everyone, now, would be conscious of the pitfalls of personal pride? But it doesn’t work that way. Some foolishly conjure wordly gains for themselves by bending God’s rules, whatever it takes.

In the Old Testament, sometimes dispersed, are God’s commands to his human creatures, the greatest commandment of which is for them to love God continuously and diligently (my words). In Matthew 22: 34-40 Jesus states this commandment emphatically, adds to it the second greatest commandment: to love our neighbor as ourself and poses the two of them as the foundation of all our commanded obligations. Please see the short, cited text.

You know, God’s commandments, as the cited text shows, are quite direct and clearly explicit, but so were the stipulations God voiced to Adam and Spouse. It’s interesting that the commandments are directed to and mandatory for human beings only. Little puppy dogs might get a bit of a reprimand by their human owner or timeout restrained in a compound or by chain; but once trained they seem to behave predictably well. Without either the inclination or prideful deviousness to think up sophisticated disobediences that, properly obfuscated, likely, will reap both material and psychical payback to the human disobeyer while shielding him from forseeable, legal penalty, puppies’ goodwill is pretty well expected and, usually, forthcoming.

It’s true: puppies will try to get away with what they can, but they don’t know any better. To them a digression is a digression, without the gradations human beings recognize, say, between using the wrong fork at a formal dinner and committing brutal homicide. (Besides, a self-respecting puppy wouldn't do the latter on a bet!)  And the puppies can’t factor in the meterial or psychic rewards that might accrue to them in relation to their commission of a higher degree of digression, along with the liklihood of shielding the commission from detection. I guess what I’m talking about is free will gone amuck. Pope JP II clearly taught that we have been given freedom to do what we ought to do not freedom to do whatever we wish to do.

And that gets us back to God’s commandments: First Love God with all diligence and Love your neighbor as yourself. 

That’s what we ought to do; God gave us the freedom to so do. He also gave us a freedom by which we can disobey His commandments, at our peril. Some don’t seem to realize He, besides being creator and giver of all we have and enjoy, also is both the maker of the "ground rules" and the official scorekeeper.

Peace,

JR

Posted 1 year ago #
Jakes - Moderator

GREAT (not small) 1.b.                                                         ("Great" better befits Malcolm Muggeridge’s observation than does "BIG")

".... You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the greatest and the first commandment. The second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments." (Jesus quoted in Mt 22: 37-40)

Considering that the "whole law and the prophets" comprise a very extensive and complete body of recorded regulation and admonishment from Almighty God to his human creatures as to how He requires their individual and collective lives to be lived, then how convenient for us it is, that all these God-mandated requirements to which we are divinely subjected have been stated in such an easily remembered, foundational precis: "Love God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your mind" and "Love your neighbor as yourself."

That’s it? Yes indeed, that’s it! Well, then, I guess we’d better know what "love" means; i.e., what it means to God, or put another way, what God means when He commands it.

Well, first of all, it would seem that, for us validly to render love as God intends in His commandment, that we impart love with utmost generosity in the interest of, and for the good of, the Other or other, undiluted by paramount, selfish designs of our own.

It seems, therefore, that, minimally, love of neighbor entails caring about the wellbeing of the other and a willingness, even a desire, to help facilitate the other’s achieving that wellbeing to the extent circumstances might permit us to be reasonably able to do so.

When the ideas of a sincere readiness to care about and to help your neighbor as practicably doable are seen as essential to valid love, one can see that indifference to the welfare of another is the opposite of love. The common idea that you either love or hate, as opposites isn’t really correct. Certainly if one hates another, one doesn’t love him, but hate isn’t essential to not loving: indifference is. (One might hate an injustice and, thereby, be all the more caring about and helpful toward one potentially suffering that injustice.)

This would seem a good place to pause before subsequently looking at the erosion of justice in our society due to widespread indifference to God's command to love..

Posted 1 year ago #
pouliot - Member
To: Jakes
RE: "..."
The END?
Regards,
Old Sigma (Cradle Catholic & generally inveterate amateur)
Posted 1 year ago #
fishman - Member
can't say as I have anything to contribute, but I thought I let you know I read this and agree.
Posted 1 year ago #
Jakes - Moderator

Thanks for your comments, pouliot and fishman.

I’ll not argue that "indifference" is the "only opposite" there is to love. I’ll say, though, that if one is indifferent to the dignity inherent in another human being (or group of them) in circumstances wherein he is capable of some degree of caring help BUT AVOIDS OFFERING ANY; then he abridges God’s Greatest Commandments.

Both of God’s Greatest Commandments? Sure, both of them because he was indifferent to the plight of God’s creature and, in doing so, was indifferent to the Dignity of The Loving Creator, Who, after all, had Commanded Love, not indifference be extended to that particular creature, that neighbor.

But, suppose, in this busy world one is not well aware of another’s difficulties. Well, that certainly is possible, even likely in particular circumstances, and all the more likely when one selfishly or slothfully keeps blinders on so as not to "become involved".

But let’s start with the existence of God’s Two Greatest Commandments. Doesn’t "their being there" mandate a disposition on every Christian’s part to be alert for some person, among all one meets, who might have a need one could help address, at least in some small way? OK, we can’t all be "Do-gooders". But, after all, there do exist for all Christians God’s Two Greatest Commandments, not God’s Two Options. Nor did these commandments spring up with Christianity, as they exist in the Old Testament.

And for many good people who would prefer not to be classified "religious" the Golden Rule is quite pertinent, respected and employed: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". (An imperative sentence, that - remember from English grammar?)

And you don’t even have to tell anyone about the Golden Rule's connection with Deuteronomy, if you're not so inclined.

Enough.

Peace,

Jakes

Posted 1 year ago #
AlvinaL - Inactive
The Liturgy of the Word readings for this weekend Deu 30:10-14; Luke 10:25-37 have the same teaching that is near to the heart of Jakes who started this thread. 

Matthew 22: 37-40 You shall love the Lord you God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.  This is the great and first commandment.  And a second is like it, You Shall love your neighbor as your self.  On these two commandments depend all the law and the prophets.

The reading in Deut. 30: 14 No, it is something very near to you, already in your mouths and in your hearts; you have only to carry it out.

Friends, perhaps CE posters can share ways to live out the Word of God of this past weekend - while it is fresh in our minds.  Thanks.

Posted 1 year ago #
Jakes - Moderator

Thanks, Alvinal.

Most are familiar with Jesus’s parable about the good Samaritan: who cared about, ministered to and - at his personal expense - arranged continuing care for a stranger he had happened upon, who had been assailed, robbed and left near death at the side of a road. Previously the paths of a priest and a Levite had given each of them opportunities to have helped that same victim but, separately, these witnesses chose (as we say these days) to "avoid eye contact" with "the problem", even though their law required love of neighbor.

In defining neighbor, my dictionariy cites the idea of nearness and brings in the idea of kindliness. In the instant parable nearness to the victim occurred by sheer chance to alll three: the priest, Levite and Samaritan, only the last of whom practiced neighborly kindliness while the other two showed common (in several connotations of the word) indifference to the crucial needs of their fellow man, near death.

Today, there’s an expansion of nearness to others by virtue of world-spanning communication able to make us aware; authoritatively and very rapidly, of the existence of particularly dire needs of peoples often very remote from ourselves, but here, at home, too. Often, thankfully, there are, as well, bonafide organizers of needed assistance, oftentimes operating under valid Catholic, or other reliable, moral guidelines.

Regretfully, other organizations - with deficits in their understanding or acceptance of what Scripture and Jesus, particularly, defined as God’s Command to all to love all - that either willfully or by just a dullness of mind and spirit, promote initiatives that kill rather than cure, whether it be killing the body, the spirit or both.

If, somehow, we were able to fill each of two groups with the first 1000 persons selected by validated criterion that they practice God’s commandment of love of neighbor, Group 1, or that that criterion does not guide them, Group 2, what might we find?

I think we would find Group 1 members tending, personally, to be happier, more composed, less stressed out and possessing truer friends. Instances of recrimination voiced by Group 2 members against Group 1 members - particularly that Group 1’ers are narrow and prejudiced - would far exceed such charges toward Group 2’ers.

Pretty subjective assessment? Well, perhaps.

Peace,

Jakes

Posted 1 year ago #
wljewell - Member
God loves you . Hmmm - Just in that the Group 1 set would tend to marry in profound (permanent!) commitment, versus a steady divorce rate among the Group 2 types, would suggest that your assessment is accurate. Indeed, studies reflect that the married-for-life are far more pleased, satisfied and happy with their lives. Remember, I love you, too Reminding that we are all on the same side - His, Pristinus Sapienter (wljewell @catholicexchange.com or ... yahoo.com)
Posted 1 year ago #
pouliot - Member
To: Jakes
RE: "In the instant parable nearness to the victim occurred by sheer chance to alll three: the priest, Levite and Samaritan, only the last of whom practiced neighborly kindliness while the other two showed common (in several connotations of the word) indifference to the crucial needs of their fellow man, near death."
There is perhaps a slightly deeper reflection that may be prompted by this parable. 

The priest & the Levite would have been understood by the audience, I suspect, of preserving their ritual purity as they "crossed to the other side" and went on their way.  What Jesus is pointing out, is that such concerns interfere with the proper response to God's commandment. 

I suppose that if this lesson were accepted, many would change their stance on precepts vs. charity.

Regards,
Old Sigma (Cradle Catholic & generally inveterate amateur)
Posted 1 year ago #
Jakes - Moderator

Thanks, PS & OS.

With regard to not defiling their persons they would have the option, nowadays, of calling 911; not then, of course.  But I'd suppose that, if they cared (loved as Jesus said to love), they had the option of finding someone else, somewhere on either side of the street, who might have rushed over to help out (perhaps even have beaten the Good Samaritan there).

It would be satisfying to think they might have crossed over only because they knew that more predictable and reliable help would have been available from that side.

But whatever anyone else's motives were, we know the Good Samaritan's and they were exemplary, right on the button!.

Again, thanks PS and OS.  You're both so stimulating, always.

 

Peace,

Posted 1 year ago #
Jakes - Moderator

Some critical considerations

1. God created us and enunciated certain ways for us to conduct our lives.

2. "Love God" is God’s First and Greatest Commandment: our first responsibility..

3.. "Love your neighbor as yourself " is the second. Not to do so affronts the Creator.

4. Validly fullfilling these two commandments fulfills all God requires of us.

5. That we are commanded at all, reveals our latitude to obey or disobey a commandment.

6. Obeying has an eternal reward; disobeying, without forgiveness, an eternal penalty.

7. The Inerrant Scorekeeper of our abiding or not by God’s commanded ways, is God.

 

Some Random Thoughts on Love of Neighbor

1. Truly loving others, constantly and well, betters oneself; influences the other positively

2. True Love compliments the other; declares respect, caring.and support where needed.

3. Opportunities to convey respect, caring and support abound prolifically and constantly.

4. Love of those neighbors within families, if only starting by quelling impatience is essential.

5. Progress in the practice of love of neighbor, particularly in the family, snowballs.

6. Pro-choicers do not love neighbor as God has commanded.   See St.Paul about doing no harm to others.

 

Two particular neighbors

1. What neighbor could be closer to anyone than the tiny human being in the womb?

2. What neighbor is more innocently in need of care?

3. What neighbor had less to do with fashioning people and circumstances surrounding her?

4. What neighbor would have less intent than she to harm anyone, particulary in family?

5. What neighbor has greater potential for becoming "best friend and comforter" of Mother?

6. Whom have the courts given a more sinister "right" to impose death than to mothers of unborn human beings?

7. Who is more apt to be pressured by opportunistic males to get rid of "that hindrance" than mothers of the yet unborn?

8. Why is an earlier abortion preferable to a later one, other than fuller physical evidence of what we already know: "She's a baby, a little human being"? Isn’t that child more fragile and needful of caring? Is that child less human than an older person?  Such rubbish!

9 Haven’t mothers of the unborn been doublecrossed into a Catch 22 dead end?

10 Who more than politicians and culture of death organization are the doublecrossers?  You say judges? Concentrate on those who installed them: Abortion advocating groups, politicians they support and voters.

11. When politicians have been dealt with, won’t the courts straighten out?  Sure!

12. Shouldn’t everyone of the electorate correct the plight of these two neighbors, NOW. Wouldn't that accord with God's Greatest Commandments?  Of course!   (NOW wasn't capitalized as a pun - just emphasis!)

13. Is there anything simpler and more powerful than casting a ballot in the USA?

14. How can a voter who did so before, support again a politician’s placing these two neighbors in jeopardy?

15. How can one enfranchised to vote deny love to these two neighbos by not voting?

16. As 50% of eligibles regularly do not vote, isn’t their participation all we need for justice?

17. If those 50%’ers had ever inclined toward pro-abortion wouldn’t they have rushed to past polls? 

18. What excuse for their indifference to these two neighbors do non-voters have?

19. And about NOW; aren’t they among "the many doublecrossers on pathways to the bank"?  That's where the robber barons are - in the "pro-choice" movement.

 

Peace,     Jakes

Posted 1 year ago #
AlvinaL - Inactive

Jakes,

RE: 2. "Love God" is God’s First and Greatest Commandment: our first responsibility..

From Luke 10: 27 You shall love the Lord, your God,with all your heart,
with all your being,
with all your strength,
and with all your mind,
and your neighbor as yourself.

I want to share the last part of the today’s sermon in regard to the reading of the Good Samaritan because I feel that it applies to this topic. When was the last time we genuinely reached out to someone we didn’t know? A prerequisite to love of neighbor is love of God.  The first 3 Ten Commandments apply to God.  When we put God in the proper place – when we put God first in our lives - love of neighbor will naturally follow.  Love of neighbor flows naturally from love of God.

A prerequisite to love of neighbor must then include daily prayer, the Mass, the sacraments, learning the Catholic faith.  Love of neighbor will follow naturally.

Posted 1 year ago #
Jakes - Moderator

Yes, Alvinal, I agree.  Sometimes I shortcut some of the words in the Greatest Commandment, deliberately, by just citing "Love God", having previously given citation of Matthew 22:34-40 and recommending close reading of it. 

The reason is so that I may concentrate attention to the Second Greatest Commandment, reminding readers to remind franchised voters that the freedom given by God is for us to do what we ought, not whatever we wish (as JPII stated) and that applies strongly in selecting morally correct politicians.

I believe that (Love neighbor as yourself) is the most compelling and understandable and teachable reason why abortion is wrong, and by corrollary, that personally participating in electing abortion-supporting politicians is a direct violation of God's Second Greatest Commandment.  Of course, it violates the First, as it mortally or insultingly and rudely treats two classes of neighbors He has purposefully, lovingly, created.

When voters get to understand violations of the Second, they will also have understood violations of the First.  By that time, hopefully and by the grace of God, they would have voted out the abortion-collaborating politicians (or put the fear of God in their erstwhile supporters and in themselves).

Several months ago, Mary Kochan authored a piece to the effect: What if we have only two non-pro-life candidates in 2008?  What I am writing is intended to show that if we convey to abortion-supporting politicians (by word first and vote second) our intent to run them out if they don't reform, then Mary Kochan's apprehension can be ameliorated.  The presidency is critically important to our nation but not by itself. The accumulated imcumbencies of many other offices play immense roles.

But fine-tuning these incumbencies and the chief executive's approach to important matters, as well, requires, before November 2008 arrives, massive, grass-roots efforts to reach formerly non-supporters of the pro-life cause with the convincing message that God's Greatest Commandments require each of them to show tangible love of our neighbors, His beloved creatures: the human beings in wombs and their mothers.  Such they can do through the easy acts of speaking up and voting.

The former (the babies) are being murdered - every day, 365 days a year - in DAILY NUMBERS - each day - that exceed the 3,000 killed by terrorists 9-11-01!!  How can we allow that to continue?!

Abortion-supporting politicians make this reality possible and continue its permanency.  How can we allow THEM to continue?

As persons, EACH commanded by God to Love Him and Love our neighbor, we each place our personal, eternal life in severe jeopardy by faciliting the continuation of this slaughter of children and permitting the imposition of severe pressures on their mothers by not taking the simple step of voting for politicians who sincerely respect life.  Franchised Americans cannot imitate, with personal impunity, Pontius Pilot's attempted escape act of "washing his hands" of an abominable act while performing the abomination of facilitating the incumbency of pro-abortions politicians.  

To remind all that God's Commandment to love neighbor is personally emasculated by supporting politicians who promote abortion.

Remenber 50% of citizens eligible to vote refrain, customarily, to do so.  Such citizens, demonstrably, are not abortion ideologues, as such ideologues can always be recognized by their unswerving dedication to the vote.  Put another way: if these 50% favored abortion they would never have even considered not voting!  Ideologues don't stay home on election day.  (These 50% have!)  Is that not a reliably valid conclusion that many (likely a large majority) of the 50% are open to the cause of life, if just prodded and, as such.   So do we not have in these considerations a practical  criterion for the selection of a fruitful pool of voting strength from the pro-life position?  Surely we do !!

Stressing to these formerly non-voters their responsibility, so pivotal to their own, personal, eternal happiness -  to love their neighbors (baby and mother) just as they love themselves, as GOD COMMANDED each of them to do is what they OUGHT to do as election day approaches, giving them opportunities to communicate their priorities and voting intentions to competing politicians.

That same message spread abroad ought to give pause, before voting, to many others who've routinely supported abortion-promoting politicians, particularly if such support in the past has been only coincidental to such politicians' abortion positions.

Thanks, again Alvinal.  There's the message; what are needed now are initiatives of many to make things happen.

Peace,

Posted 1 year ago #
Jakes - Moderator

Many thanks to the all the solid posters who made salient comments in this thread.  Others, too, such as GK, Michaelme, NoelFitz and Mary Kochan (and I'm sure I've missed others I shouldn't have). 

I'd like to direct the attention of such as these to the thread "What Fools These Mortals Be!" for their ideas and initiatives to spread awareness among all Americans franchised to vote, that the human being in the womb is the neighbor of us all, whom we've been COMMANDED TO LOVE (as is her mother, often subjected to unspeakable pressures and threats by an unscrupulous male "to get rid of that kid" - so he can evade responsibilities of fatherhood)!!  

And all this is enabled by politicians in thrall of the multi-billion dollar abortion industry.  That can change dramatically in 2008 as conscientious voters make democracy work again.   

Peace,          Jakes

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