redeemed{hopefully},
The fact that you do not understand Mary's place in salvation history{Lk 1:30 KJV} aside, you wrote, " Jesus was beaten beyond recognition, his beard was ripped from his face, he was mocked and spit on. Mary didn't suffer any of that."
According to the Bible, Mary was there, with Him.{Jn 19:25 KJV} Please tell me what mother, in the truest sense of the word as is fitting for the one chosen by God to carry His Eternal Word, does not suffer when her child is harmed in any way, let alone the persecution and death that our Lord endured?
You wrote, "Wouldn't you rather go to someone that has - been there - done that - to get comfort for your troubles?"
Catholics do go to Jesus, Mary as a kind and gracious mother brings us to Him and speaks kindly of us, so that our sinful names might be more pleasing to His ears.
You wrote, "think about it"
The Catholic Church has thought about it. In fact they prayed about it, requested guidance from the Holy Spirit about it, and have proclaimed the truth about it-for two thousand years. After the revolution in the 1500's, Martin Luther wrote about her, Mary, to whom all honor should be given. In trying to break as many ties with the true Church, certain protestant denominations sought ways to discredit the Church so they attacked Her Mother.
How does a Son react when one attacks the mother whom only after she was given to the apostle John, whom He also loved, and he given to her, did He declare that all things were now accomplished? Jn 19:26-28 KJV
Have you?
incubator, indeed!
In Christ,
There, now you have a couple of little Abe Lincolns from me... Remember, the Sun is always shining!