Homosexuality is not a disease but I truly believe a third gender. When boys find out (and girls) that they are attracted to the same sex, they find out at ages 11, 12, and 13. I don't think that if one dies in a car accident after finding this out about himself that God would condemn him/her to all eternity in hell at 11 years old. I just cannot believe this.
Somewhere down the line, in the Bible or not, something was misplaced. Gays are people too and being gay is not a choice. Myself, I do not agree with same sex marriage, nor do I believe in children being adopted by gays. Somewhere we must keep morality within the family. But to condemn these people who truly do not choose this is wrong. God loves everyone regardless, and He will judge and only Him.
Benedict16,
I agree with you (and so does the Church) that we should not condemn a person because they have a same sex attraction. In Christ, we are all called to live in Him.
But we must realize there is a tremendous difference between having a same sex attraction and engaging in homosexual acts. The identity of a person is not their behavior.
We all sin; we all miss the mark. But we don't just accept sin in our lives, we repent -- it's a lifelong struggle. Christ's life, death, and resurrection saved us from our slavery to sin. Our sin does not name us -- Jesus Christ does.
It is not for us to judge people, but we must distinguish between actions which do God's will and those actions which are sinful.
I agree with you PTK. And remember it was JP II that said we should not condemn homosexuals for being homosexuals. But that we should love them and encourage them not to engage in homosexual activity. In other words live a chaste life.
And Benedict 16, I to feel that homosexuals or gays should not be allowed to adopt children. Nor do I support same sex marriages or unions. Supporting that would be in support of homosexual activity.
There was some time ago a prominent Protestant minister that was caught in a homosexual relationship. He "excused" himself from his ministry and was later "cured" of his homosexual tendencies while involved in an intense "prayer session/retreat". I do not doubt that if God wanted to "cure" someone of his homosexuality He could. But the skeptical side of me says this "cure" the minister received is hog wash. First I do not think homosexuality is a disease. What causes it I'm not sure and really don't spend a great deal of time worrying about that aspect of it. I just feel that as Christians we need practice what JP II said we needed to.
tarheel
Once again Pristinus your wealth of knowledge has provided some enlightenment for us all. Oddly though after I visited it I began to wonder why I've never heard of this before.
Tarheel
I am not too sure whether homosexuality is healable or not.
To me it seems a difficult burden, similar to alcoholism, not sinful in itself. An alcholic must try to curb his craving for alcohol, so must a homosexual curb his disordered craving. The homeosexual like the heterosexual should avoid sex outside marriage.
You might like to look at http://www.christendom-awake.org/pages/mshivana/popejohnpaulII.htm
In a letter “On the Pastoral Care of the Homosexual Person” the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith affirmed that homosexual attraction, while not sinful, “is a more or less strong tendency ordered toward an intrinsic moral evil and thus the inclination itself must be seen as an objective disorder.”
God bless,
NoelFitz.
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In necessariis, unitas; in dubiis, libertas; in omnibus, caritas.
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Catholics (and non-Catholics) have an awesome resource in a program called Courage which is described as:
an apostolate of the Roman Catholic Church that ministers to those with same-sex attractions and their loved ones. Courage has been endorsed by the Pontifical Council for the Family and our beloved John Paul II said of this ministry, "COURAGE is doing the work of God!" We also have an outreach called Encourage which ministers to relatives and friends of persons with same-sex attractions.
From our website (http://www.couragerc.net/) you will learn about homosexuality and chastity. By developing an interior life of chastity, which is the universal call to all Christians, one can move beyond the confines of the homosexual identity to a more complete one in Christ.
We, as Christians and Catholics, have to support programs like this one and fight to keep the normalization of these behaviors from growing. This is not just against those with homosexual desires, but everything that encourages unchaste living and the destruction of our families.
"The Catholic Church frames the Christian life as one in which you must exercise virtue—not because virtue saves you, but because that's the way God's grace gets manifested." Dr. Francis J. Beckwith
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B16, what are the genital charactistics of this third gender you speak of?
Benedict,
Have you seen this site that was recommended by Warren in another thread? http://www.narth.com/
Very interesting reading.
In Christ,
Remember, the Sun is always shining!
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