Sorry for the repeat, but I think this (following) applies to this thread too. In order to help reasonable, peace-loving Muslims stand up and beside us in this conflict, we need to give them reason to believe we are not the Godless hedonists the radical Muslims say we are.
I voted for Bush both times, and while I think he is an honest man, and I do not regret voting for him, I think he is wrong on this. I wish he had heeded the pope's advice before taking us into Iraq. In any case, once he decided to go to war, I think he was wrong in how he chose to go about it. He simply was not firm enough, and did not put enough men and material to the task. We Americans will not go for a hundred-years war; this one has in my opinion dragged out long enough.
I prefer Pope Benedict's approach of trying to engage reasonable Muslims and if possible, find some way to steer clear of violence.
I think we need to be very firm and sadly, probably use a lot of violence against militant radical Muslim terrorists, but I do not think the whole of Iraq is composed of such radicals.
Ultimately we need regular, garden variety, "reasonable" Muslims, both those at home and abroad, on our side. However as long as even reasonable Muslims think we are a godless people with a vulgar, repugnant society who truly want to undermine their culture, family values, and disgrace their children with our decadent ways, it is doubtful many of them will come to our defense and risk getting on board with our plans to help build a democratic society in Iraq.
I mean, we can build as many schools and hospitals as we like, and we can even get the water & electric running, but as long as regular (i.e. traditional, but non-radical) Muslims honestly believe we are part of a Godless society that they both fear and loathe, we will not win.
I have read where even radical Muslims are not so much against democracy (witness the elections in Palestine, where the radical Hamas group actually won the election), as they are appalled at what we Amercians have decided to do with our freedoms. Don't misunderstand me; bin Laden is not a democrat. However the way they see it, rather than use our freedoms to advance things civilized, Godly, and gentle, the image we put out to the world is that we have chosen the way of abortion, gay marriage, free love, drugs, and a host of other decadent things that have lead to a society plagued with violence, mental and physical illness, a high divorce rate, a real drug problem, troubled, scandalized, or very cynical children, and the like.
While of course we need to fight radical Muslims terrorists (and we need to be serious about them, by the way), we also should take a look at ourselves. At the very least we should examine the image we put out to the rest of the world.
The cultural trash we routinely broadcast to the world by way of movies, TV, music and the arts are quite offensive to traditional cultures, but when for example, American NGO groups like Planned Parenthood or any number of gay pride or other types of atheistic, secular humanist groups internationally promote (via UN or other means) abortion, sexual liberties, and/or other types of anti-family, anti-religious policies and generally low morals, given our status as a superpower, of course traditional patriarchal and/or religious societies will find that (i.e., us) threatening. These things offend and threaten many of the traditional societies in this world. In particular, they have driven the radical Muslim fringe of traditional Muslim societies into a violent rage against us.
We would do well then, and it is in our best interest, to be aware of and sensitive to how other societies see us. In short, we should try to put our best foot forward internationally, and try not broadcast things to these traditional cultures that we know will disgust and horrify them.
Reasonable conservatives in the US and reasonable Muslims (not fanatical mind you, but reasonable Muslims) both here and abroad, should try to see those things that - culturally - we in fact have in common (e.g., pro-life, respect for modesty, belief in traditional social values, etc.) and in the process, perhaps even develop some sort of mutual respect.
KB