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Catholics who support obortion should not receice Communion

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  • Started 3 months ago by DonHudzinski
  • Latest reply from bhokuto

DonHudzinski - Member

http://marysanawim.wordpress.com/2008/08/20/catholics-who-support-abortion-should-not-receive-communion/

Posted 3 months ago #
laurak - Member

But what do you do, if there is a Catholic in the parish that you know has committed the sin of abortion, who fully understands that it is wrong, and then attempts to receive communion without the sacrament of confession?

And why are politicians not automatically excommunicated from the Catholic church if they support abortion?

Posted 3 months ago #
MREINER16 - Member

I would say that these politcians have to some degree excommunicated themselves and the Church would only be making it more public. I say this because St. Paul writes: "Therefore whosoever shall eat this bread, or drink the chalice of the Lord unworthily, shall be guilty of the body and of the blood of the Lord. But let a man prove himself: and so let him eat of that bread, and drink of the chalice. For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh judgment to himself, not discerning the body of the Lord." (1 Corinthians 11:27-29).

Posted 3 months ago #
fishman - Member

more over any catholic who 'assists in attaining an abortion' suffers automatic excommunication under current cannon law. So they are automatically excommunicated. What would be useful would be for the bishops to point this out.

To answer the question I would inform the priest. You really don't know the catholic may have already repented and confessed their sin to the pastor.
If you believe the pastor is allowing this you must take it to the bishop.

If the bishop refuses to correct the problem it can be reported to the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith who has it in their power to take the issue up with the pope and correct or remove the bishop and replace him with another if necessary.

The church however moves very slowly and conscientiously to avoid scandal and rash judgmentally on any such issue so it would be very patient work.

Posted 2 months ago #
MREINER16 - Member

fishman- I agree with your approach for the non-public or non-politician. However, when a public figure or politician continually goes on record saying they support the right to abortion, then this person as served notice that he is in opposition to the Church. To be fair, I believe his priest or local bishop should privately approach him and ask him to repent. If he/she continues in their public stance, the priest should involve the bishop and I would give him even one more chance. If the person continues in their erroneous ways, then public excommunication must be announced,

Posted 2 months ago #
noelfitz - Member

It is great to see so many contributing to our discussions here.

So, is it agreed that if I know anyone who is in the state of mortal sin and tries to receive communion I tell the priest, then the bishop, then the CDF and then the Pope. Does anyone have the Pope's email address?

If anyone in our parish lives with a person, not his/her spouse, should I report them? If people cheat on their taxes, drink too much, deprive their employees of their just wages or are proud should I report them to the Pope?

Incidentally does anyone know of any person in the US who has been excommunicated?

God bless,
Noelfitz.
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Posted 2 months ago #
noelfitz - Member

I read:
The Cardinal wrote: ''Where Catholics are perceived not only as treating Church teaching on abortion with contempt, but helping to multiply abortions by advocating legislation supporting abortion or by making public funds available for abortion, bishops may decide that, for the common good, such Catholics must be warned they are at risk of excommunication.

''If such actions persist, bishops may consider excommunication the only option.''

It seems to me all huff and puff.

Threats without action are useless. The Church should either act or shut up. Excommunicate or admit that the threats are just hot air.

God bless,
Noelfitz.
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Posted 2 months ago #
MREINER16 - Member

How do you know they are in a state of mortal sin? I think the issue we are discussing is when ver public people like politcians continue to make very public statements and actions in support of abortion which we all agree is murder. I would say that individual's parish priest is actually obligated to privately speak to them and privide fraternal correction. If that pesron does not repent, then yes, bishops must get involved. In the circumstances that noel described you have non-public people who are acting immorally and if you know the person well enough you might offer corrction to them individually but I don't think it would be wise to "report" them to teh parish priest.

Posted 2 months ago #
laurak - Member

"Threats without action are useless." My son's girlfriend just had an abortion and they were both practicing Catholics. My son was against it. I lost my temper when I heard she was going to do this and told her she can not come back in my home if she ended the life of my grandchild. My parish priest told me I need to forgive her, 2 days after the abortion. My son thinks I have been mean to his girlfriend, by not being supportive of her.

I lost my temper tonight when I came home and she was there. I am the only person who has said that this was a human being that she killed. She met my son to celebrate her own birthday - to go out to eat and watch the fireworks tonight....

I am afraid if I come down too hard on her or my son, that it will turn both of them away from the Catholic church forever. But, if I don't speak out very assertively, it seems like I am condoning a very grave evil.

I can understand the position of the priests and bishops because I am trying to cope with this situation too.

Posted 2 months ago #
MREINER16 - Member

laurak- wow talking about having to live it and not just talk about it. first, my condolences to you on this loss. Second, you all with me in my intentions tomorrow at Mass. I commend you for turning to your priest and to God at this moment of pain in your life. I think forgivenness is in order, but maybe it will take a little time. But forgiveness does not mean accepatnce of the actions of the girlfriend or your son. I certainly am not wise enough to offer you suggestions other than this-pray for them, ask them to pray with you, turn over your hurt and anger to Jesus; close your eyes for a moment and picture his battered and brusied body on the Cross-where he died for ALL our sins.

Peace and prayers for all of you this night and especially tomorrow on the Lord's Sabbath Day.

Posted 2 months ago #
fishman - Member

laurak - I would agree with your priest that you should forgive this girl and your son.

I think you should also not allow either of them in your house until such time as they have repented of sleeping together.

I also think you should consider if the most loving thing you can do , if it is in your power , is to drive this woman out of your sons life. Obviously if he is sleeping with her he does not respect her or care about the consequences of having sex with her.

Obviously if she is sleeping with him and willing to kill her child she is not the type of person your son should marry.

will they both abandon christ over this , perhapses, but by procuring an abortion this young woman already has and suffered automatic excommunication.

Punishment should never happen because you're pride is hurt or you are simply angry. It should and must happen however, when it is best for those involved and an act of love.

no matter what it is a really tough call and you must pray and pray. I will pray for you too.

Posted 2 months ago #
noelfitz - Member

Mreiner16

You wrote:
"How do you know they are in a state of mortal sin? I think the issue we are discussing is when ver public people like politcians continue to make very public statements and actions in support of abortion which we all agree is murder. "

One does not know if anyone is in the state of mortal sin, not even oneself. For a sin to be mortal the act must be grievious, and committed with clear knowledge and full consent.
"Judgement is mine says the Lord".

God bless,
Noelfitz.
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Posted 2 months ago #
noelfitz - Member

Laurak

I am so sorry to hear of your personal involvement.

I am afraid speaking in the abstract is so easy.

Would you consider trying to make things up with your family?

Catholics believe in the forgoveness of sins. To heal problems may take time, but it will be worth it.

Once again, I am so sorry. I hope I have not been unfeeling in my posts.

God bless,
Noelfitz.
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Posted 2 months ago #
laurak - Member

Thank you everyone for your kind words and prayers. I had 2nd thoughts about posting something so personal on this website, but it just came out. My husband can't talk about it at all, and I felt the need to connect with other Catholics who believe the same way that I do.

My son & his girlfriend met in the church youth group and had a chaste relationship for 3 years. My son broke up with her because she wasn't the right one. She had a nervous breakdown and returned 3 months later to try & win him back.

All three of us have been to the March for Life in Washington, DC. several times. All the speeches and homilies and vigils in the world just didn't matter in the end. What mattered is she couldn't talk to her mother and grandmother, who are very strict and devout Catholics. She killed my grandchild rather than talk to her mom.

If anyone else reads this post, I hope you will take the time to talk to your daughters, grandaughters, sisters and girlfriends and listen without judgement. Maybe they will learn to trust you enough to tell you anything.

Posted 2 months ago #
noelfitz - Member

Thank you, Laura, for sharing with us and trusting us with your posts.

We should all pray for each other.

All of us have problems and difficulties and need prayers.

Posted 2 months ago #
grumpybumpas - Member

What does communion contribute to anyone's life???

Posted 2 months ago #
grumpybumpas - Member

What is a sin and who determins that which is sin???

Posted 2 months ago #
wljewell - Member

Grump - you appear to be as - umm - benighted? - as SanFranNan Pelosi.

Related?

Same Party platform?

Gee, what does receiving the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ do for me - I mean, beyond the greatest graces I can receive . . .

The Decalogue (Exodus 20:1-17; Deuteronomy 5:5-21) - provided by God to document His natural law for us - covers the sum of sins well. God is the Author of the Ten Comandments, as He is Author of natural law, truth, etc.

Posted 2 months ago #
wljewell - Member

laurak - take solace in praying to your new little angel saint to help your family beyond their foibles, weaknesses, sins, etc. I can only tell you to embrace this innocent's love for you and accept his sainthood for its close kinship to you.

Posted 2 months ago #
fishman - Member

grumpybumpas - taking the body and blood of christ confers on you great gifts slowly conforming and transforming your being to be more like christ.

Unless you recieve the body unworthily and with disregard in that case you are left in a worse state then before you took it because you have' eaten and drank condemation unto yourself'

Sin is the regection of the will of God.
God ultimately decides what is a sin.
He informs the consience of each man and of each member of the church in as much as they are willing to listen. The church as a whole works as an organism to help each member better discern what God is already telling them. Many people making repeated observations are more accurate then only one person tring to observe something on thier own.

Posted 2 months ago #
laurak - Member

grumpybumpas - Jesus said: unless you eat of my body and drink of my blood you have no life in you. But if you eat of my body and drink of my blood, I remain in you and you remain in me. And I will raise you on the last day.

If you want to live forever in the peace and happiness of God's love, you will receive the Lord Jesus, personally and intimately in communion. This is what makes us the body of Christ, His bridegroom, the holy Catholic church.

Sin - you determine sin yourself. There is a natural law written in every person's soul that knows right from wrong. It is called your conscience. You know when you did something that is in conflict with your conscience. You really do not need anyone else to tell you when you sin. It is your own choice. Eve knew it was wrong to eat the fruit but she did it anyway.

The good news is that Jesus chose to die in payment for our sins. His choice brought us the forgiveness of sins, if we are sorry for what we did and tell Him so, in confession.

Posted 2 months ago #
bhokuto - Member

Grump:

. But, do you see this ------- O
Eucharistic Bread? It has made martyrs. They were creatures like you: fearful, weak, even vicious sometimes. This Bread made heroes of them.

In this third part, to make saints of you, I am showing you this Table and this Bread of sinners. My Blood has transformed you into just men, My Bread will transform just men into saints. A bath washes everything, but it doesn't nourish. It refreshes, it gives some substance, but it doesn't become flesh within flesh. On the other hand, nourishment becomes flesh and blood; it becomes part of you. My Nourishment becomes part of you.

Oh! Think! Look at a little child. Today he eats his bread and also tomorrow, and tomorrow and again tomorrow. See him now become a man: tall, robust, handsome. Did his mother make him like that? No. His mother conceived him, carried him, gave birth to him, nourished him with her milk and loved him, loved him, loved him. But if the small boy had only received kisses, kisses and love alone, he would have died of starvation. The small boy becomes an adult thanks to the nourishment he eats. The man is thus an adult thanks to the nourishment taken daily.

The same thing applies to your spiritual self. Nourish it with the true nourishment that comes from heaven and gives you the energies necessary for your growth in Grace.

Strong and healthy virility is always an advantage. Observe the behavior of someone
who is always sickly; observe how easily he becomes harsh, impatient, unpleasant. My
nourishment will give you health. It will make you strong and virile in spirit. You will
be able to love others more than yourselves, as I did with you.
See, My children, how much I have loved you. Not only as one may love himself, but
even more. To the point that I agreed to die in your place, to save you from death. If
you love like that, you will know God.

Peace

Posted 2 months ago #

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